The Girls Bathroom Boy Talk: I planned our wedding…but he says we are just smashing?!
Jan 7, 2026
In this lively discussion, the hosts tackle the chaotic dynamics of modern dating. One listener grapples with a boyfriend who prefers splitting bills rather than embracing commitment. Another finds herself confused after being labeled as 'just smashing' by her partner. They also explore the awkwardness of bizarre compliments and dismiss the myth of 'saving testosterone' at the gym. With a blend of relatable stories and advice, the conversation flows seamlessly, making for an entertaining and insightful listen!
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Apologize Concisely, Prefer Text For Closure
- If you need closure, send a sincere text apology rather than forcing a face-to-face meeting.
- Write it, show it to your current partner for perspective, then decide whether to send.
Talk Money Early, Don’t Let Monzo Rule
- Call out transactional splitting and discuss financial expectations openly with your partner.
- Ask about household scenarios and agree on a sharing system before moving in together.
Money Habits Reveal Relationship Values
- Small repetitive behaviours like micro-splitting bills reveal deeper misaligned values.
- Financial friction now often predicts long-term incompatibility in relationships.
