The Unapologetic Man Podcast Female Hypergamy: Why Women Want to Bang The Pool Boy With Paul Bauer
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Nov 27, 2023 
Mark interviews Paul Bauer of the "Come On Man" podcast to delve into the concept of female hypergamy. They explore how women desire attractive men and strategies to retain their partner. They discuss the importance of independence in relationships, understanding the 8100 rule, and dating with attraction and independence.
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Understanding Female Hypergamy
- Female hypergamy means women seek the best men sexually and as providers, often separately.
- They may settle with a provider but seek sexual excitement elsewhere, like with the "pool boy."
Balancing Alpha and Beta Traits
- Focus on being both sexually attractive and a good provider to keep a relationship balanced.
- Maintain strength and frame, listen to her emotions without being needy or vulnerable.
Hypergamy Is Natural, Not Evil
- Hypergamy is natural and not "messed up," just part of female sexual strategy.
- Most women are serially monogamous and pair bond with their best available option, not constantly upgrading recklessly.