Daily Boost Motivation and Coaching Why Being Reasonable Keeps You Stuck
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Why Being Reasonable Keeps You Stuck
June 25, 2025 | Episode 5123
Host: Scott Smith
Episode Description
Scott dives into the difference between being reasonable and unreasonable, and why sometimes you need to stop going along to get along. He shares why reasonable people settle for mundane while unreasonable people create their own reality.
With his signature energy, Scott explores how society teaches us to be “good little citizens,” but that might be exactly what’s holding you back from your goals. He’ll challenge you to think about where you stand when everyone else thinks you’re being unreasonable.
Featured Story
Scott shares Maya Angelou’s powerful story about stopping at a dinner party when someone told an off-color joke at her home. Even after an apology, she stood her ground and asked the person to leave.
This moment perfectly captures what it means to be unreasonable in the eyes of others while staying true to your values. It’s a reminder that sometimes being unreasonable is exactly what the situation calls for.
Important Points
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Reasonable people settle for mundane and just go along with what society expects, while unreasonable people create different realities for themselves and everyone around them.
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Most people who feel stuck are dealing with roadblocks because others are reading them in a way that’s not compatible with who they really are.
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When you decide to go after something that excites you, you’re literally one person against 8 billion, which means most people will think you’re being unreasonable.
Memorable Quotes
“A reasonable person settles for mundane. A reasonable person just kind of goes along with it.”
“Unreasonable people will create a different reality for themselves to begin with and then for everybody around them.”
“You don’t think you’re being unreasonable. You think you’re totally reasonable for the goals you want to accomplish.”
Scott’s Three-Step Approach
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Stop going along to get along when it conflicts with your goals and values.
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Recognize that what feels reasonable to you will seem unreasonable to most other people, and that’s okay.
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Stand your ground when you know you’re right, even if it means stepping on some toes.
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