

795. The Monogamy Debate: K+L Answer Your Rawest Relationship Questions
Sep 9, 2025
K+L tackle the complex world of modern relationships, discussing boundaries, monogamy, and the journey of moving in together. They share insights from their book tour and explore feelings of validation and success. The duo dives into the 'mother wound' and its impact on self-worth, along with navigating jealousy and emotional triggers. With humor and vulnerability, they reflect on maintaining sparks in long-term relationships and the allure of emotional unavailability, all while encouraging listeners to embrace personal transformation.
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Parent Praise Often Comes Indirectly
- Krista recounts her mom attending a tour stop and making awkward comments instead of directly praising her book success.
- The exchange highlights generational habits around indirect affirmation and social posting as a form of pride.
Children Lie When They Don't Feel Safe
- Lindsey observes kids lie because they don't feel safe telling parents the truth, not simply because they're deceitful.
- She frames intentional parenting as creating a space where children feel comfortable sharing minor and major things.
Mom Asks Why They Recorded 'Pity Parties'
- Krista describes her mom asking during a Q&A why they turned their 'pity parties' into a podcast, revealing generational misunderstanding.
- The moment underscores how parents reinterpret youthful behavior through their own lens.