ADHD for Smart Ass Women with Tracy Otsuka EP. 347: Barbara Baskin on Dating After 60 with ADHD
Aug 27, 2025
Barbara Baskin, a writer and author of 'The Ponytailed Guy from Last Night,' shares her inspiring journey of self-discovery at 60 after a late ADHD diagnosis. She discusses the challenges and humor of online dating, particularly navigating the urban landscape of New York City. Barbara reflects on prioritizing self-care while managing motherhood and career, and emphasizes the importance of clear communication in modern dating. With wit and wisdom, she explores the unique experiences of women over 60, proving that it's never too late to embrace new adventures.
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Diagnosis As A Turning Point
- Barbara felt immense relief and clarity after her ADHD diagnosis in her 30s because it explained lifelong struggles.
- The diagnosis let her access help like stimulant medication and reframe self-worth beyond perceived low intelligence.
College Workarounds To Survive Grades
- At UF Barbara alternated brutal academic semesters with easy ones to avoid dismissal and keep her GPA afloat.
- She used creative workarounds like paying someone to draw stage makeup sketches to pass classes she couldn't learn traditionally.
Learn By Doing Unlocks Strengths
- Barbara discovered she learns best by doing and touching equipment, which made broadcast journalism a fit.
- Once she used hands-on learning, tasks that felt impossible became manageable and even enjoyable.
