Dating from Expectations vs. Standards

One of the main insights from the podcast is that when it comes to dating, many people approach it from a place of expectations rather than standards. By dating from expectations, individuals set themselves up for disappointment and hurt because they focus on the potential outcomes and behaviors they want, rather than accepting the reality of the person they are dating. This mindset often leads to feeling closed off and resentful towards others. Instead, the podcast suggests dating from standards, which involves having a balanced approach where one is both optimistic and honest. By setting realistic standards, individuals can find a more empowered and enjoyable dating experience.