Sexology Sexuality and Vulnerability: Lesson Learned As a Dominatrix
Welcome to episode 09 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Sandra LaMorgese. In this episode, Sandra speaks about how she made her journey into BDSM at the age of 55, misconceptions around the BDSM community and turning openness and vulnerability into a source of empowerment.
Sandra is an author, speaker, and CEO of Attainment Studios, a sex positive business directory website designed to bring together members of the sex-positive community, and for finding solutions for your professional and personal needs. She is an expert in communications, life transformation, authentic living, health, wellness, and intimacy.
Sandra is also an internationally featured Huffington Post blogger, a regular writer for Arianna Huffington’s new health and wellness platform Thrive Global, and among the top 10% of writer on Medium in 2016. She was listed as having the “Coolest Job in NYC” by Thrillist NYC, and her interview and photo shoot with Huffington Post ‘15 Unbelievable Photos of A 60-Year-Old Dominatrix with Her Client‘ article made the ‘MOST SHARED’, WHAT’S HOT and ‘TRENDING’ lists on The Huffington Post in the United States and Australia.
Her recent book Switch: Time for a Change, is a memoir about how her later profession as a dominatrix ultimately allowed her to change her previously blind adherence to “the rules,” and to enter into a whole different kind of contract with a truer version of herself. Sandra was able to change her thoughts, feelings, and beliefs in order to embrace a passionate and fulfilled life.
In this episode, you will hear:
- Sandra’s background and the different roles she’s had in her career
- How she made her journey into being a dominatrix at 55 years of age
- The relationship between vulnerability and authenticity
- How the internal changes we make to ourselves can impact our surroundings
- Exploring the unconscious through sexual play
- How Sandra becomes present and mindful in her BDSM sessions
- The importance of really connecting when being intimate
- Misconceptions around the BDSM community
- The dynamic of dominance and submission
- How people of power like to be a submissive in BDSM
- The connection between sexual energy and creativity
- The importance of trusting the process with BDSM
- Turning openness and vulnerability into a source of empowerment
- Giving a voice to our true self
- Overcoming boredom through excitement and curiosity
Resources
https://www.amazon.com/Sandra-Lamorgese-Ph-D/e/B01MCWCQZL
https://twitter.com/SandraLaMorgese
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