

Two Soldiers, Ten Years
May 21, 2021
James Dao, Metro editor for The New York Times, leads a compelling discussion with Adrian Bonenberger, a U.S. Army captain, and Tamara Sullivan, a sergeant and mom. They share candid insights from their deployment to Afghanistan, reflecting on the personal sacrifices and emotional toll of war. The narrative delves into their struggles during and post-deployment, including the challenges of reintegration and the complexities of military service. With humor and honesty, they vividly recount their experiences and the lasting impact of their time in combat.
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Tamara's Upbringing
- Tamara Sullivan grew up in South Carolina, raised by her grandmother after her parents died.
- Her family remained close, gathering for holidays with distinct gender roles.
Adrian's Background
- Adrian Bonenberger came from a lineage with military service dating back to the American Revolution.
- He studied English literature at Yale and considered law school before joining the Army.
Tamara's Motivation
- Tamara joined the Army to pay off student loans after struggling to find a stable job post-college.
- This practical motivation contrasted with Adrian's idealistic reasons for enlisting.