The Kink Consultant

From Sexless September to Locktober: Why All Men Should Be Caged with Larah Sky 

Sep 17, 2025
Larah Sky, a chastity-focused kink content creator and mentor, dives deep into the intriguing world of chastity challenges like Sexless September and Locktober. She reveals the strategies behind various chastity plans and why men are eager to participate. Larah shares tales of content platform challenges, including the chaos on OnlyFans and viral TikToks that boosted her success. With humor and expertise, Larah offers tips for newcomers and discusses balancing empathy with strictness as a dominant, making for a truly engaging conversation.
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ADVICE

Start Chastity Gradually

  • Start chastity with gradual steps like easy/intermediate/hard calendar plans to avoid burnout.
  • Use weekly or few-days goals first and build habit instead of attempting a full month immediately.
ADVICE

Use Orgasm Schedules

  • Use orgasm scheduling (easy/intermediate/hard) to control escalation and withdrawal effects.
  • Transitioning from frequent orgasms to denial can maximize psychological impact when desired.
ADVICE

Treat Locktober As Habit Training

  • Treat Locktober as habit training: wear a cage when practical and scale wearing times.
  • Allow negotiated exceptions (work, sleep) and focus on consistency rather than perfection.
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