The Ramsey Show

She's 20 and Her Parents Want Her To Buy Them A House

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Nov 6, 2025
In this discussion, Jenna, a caller tackling $98K in debt with her husband, grapples with whether to halt their 401(k) contributions to speed up debt repayment. The hosts offer guidance on balancing immediate financial relief with long-term savings. They also tackle the sensitive topic of parents requesting financial help, advising Jenna to set clear boundaries while managing her own financial goals. Listeners gain insights on prioritizing debt repayment versus investing and learn tips for maintaining financial health in challenging family dynamics.
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ADVICE

Protect Your Money And Boundaries

  • Say a firm no when family pressures you to fund their upgrades; protect money earmarked for your goals.
  • Move out and set boundaries if staying enables ongoing financial demands and guilt obligations.
INSIGHT

Season Matters More Than Money

  • Buying a house during a transitory season (grad school/medical rotations) rarely makes sense financially.
  • Early, firm boundaries with parents reveal the pattern of future expectations if you comply now.
ADVICE

Sell High-Cost Vehicles To Crush Debt

  • Sell vehicles that consume most of your debt if they aren't needed and use proceeds to pay loans.
  • Calculate private-party value, clear titles, and use credit-union gap loans only if necessary to sell fast.
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