The Sugars discuss doubts in relationships, the importance of saying 'I love you', navigating physical attraction, the complexities of love and prioritizing honesty, taking chances in relationships, and navigating doubts before marriage.
Doubts about the lack of physical attraction in a relationship and its impact on its success
Concerns about a partner with a history of cheating and whether trustworthiness should be questioned
Deep dives
Doubting the declaration of love
A listener writes in seeking advice on what to do when their partner hasn't said "I love you" yet. They talk about how their relationship has progressed, spending all their free time together, and even planning to move in together. The listener wonders how long is too long to wait to hear those three little words and how to navigate this situation without feeling like they forced their partner into saying it.
Physical attraction in a relationship
A listener expresses their concerns about the lack of physical attraction they feel towards their girlfriend. While they appreciate all the other qualities in her and their relationship has progressed quickly, the listener wonders if physical chemistry is an essential part of a real relationship and if they should continue pursuing it or consider ending the relationship.
Dating someone with a history of cheating
A listener reveals that the person they are dating has a history of cheating in previous relationships, but claims to have changed and wants a committed relationship. The listener is concerned about their partner's lack of regret or reflection on their past actions and also wonders about their choice of friends who continue to cheat. They seek advice on whether they should be worried about their partner's moral compass and trustworthiness.
Timing of proposing marriage
A listener, who has been divorced, is in a new relationship and feels ready to get married again. They have found an amazing partner and have had conversations about major life topics. The listener is considering proposing during a trip to Europe together but questions if it's too soon, if others will perceive it as rushing, and if some doubts about marriage come from their past experiences. They seek advice on timing and whether their concerns are valid.
How many times have you heard this: "I love him, we're great together, but..."? There's always room for doubt, even in the happiest of relationships. So this week, the Sugars take on some of those doubts in rapid-fire fashion.
This episode was originally published on January 5th, 2017.
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