Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

The Securely Attached Child and How to Handle Disrespectful Behavior (with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson)

Jan 7, 2020

Dr. Tina Payne Bryson, an expert on child development and co-author of 'The Power of Showing Up,' discusses how secure attachment shapes children's confidence and happiness. She emphasizes the importance of feeling safe, seen, and soothed, revealing how parental responses impact emotional growth. Tina also provides strategies for handling toddler disrespect with patience and modeling respect, turning challenging moments into valuable learning opportunities for both parent and child.

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Tina Payne Bryson

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Quick takeaways

Secure attachment is crucial for a child's emotional resilience, requiring caregivers to provide a safe, seen, soothed, and secure environment.

Modeling respectful communication helps children express feelings appropriately, transforming challenging behaviors into opportunities for emotional learning and connection.

Deep dives

The Essence of Secure Attachment

The primary focus of the discussion revolves around the critical nature of secure attachment in child development. Research indicates that having at least one securely attached caregiver significantly influences a child's emotional resilience and overall mental health. This attachment fosters healthier relationships as the child matures, thereby enhancing their ability to navigate social situations effectively throughout their life. By emphasizing the importance of 'showing up,' caregivers can ensure that their children feel safe, seen, and soothed, foundational elements that contribute to secure attachment.

Intro

3min

The Power of Secure Attachment

6min

Emotional Foundations: Parenting and Child Development

6min

Navigating Toddler Disrespect

18min

Embracing Feelings in Parenting and Nutritional Solutions for Kids

3min

Dr. Tina Payne Bryson joins Janet to discuss what children need most from the adults in their lives to feel securely attached, self-confident, and happy. Tina outlines the truths that scientific research and her own experience show, and then using the parenting tools she describes in her new book “The Power of Showing Up,” she and Janet address an email from a parent who’s concerned about her two-year-old daughter’s disrespectful tone of voice.

For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ.

Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble and Apple Books.

Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com).

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