Start with Small Steps 59 - Can Nice People Get Ahead?
59 - Can Nice People Get Ahead
I talk about the book “Barking Up the Wrong Tree” by Eric Barker and I have to say, it really got me thinking. As a nice person, I often wonder if it’s possible to get ahead in life and work without being a jerk. And according to Barker, it is! Sure, appearance and making a good impression on bosses are important, but in the long run, it’s the givers who are more successful. By practicing generous tit-for-tat and forgiving after being betrayed, we build a reputation as trustworthy and kind people. So let’s focus on reciprocity and being the best versions of ourselves because that’s what really pays off in the end.
Links
https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2785
https://www.amazon.com/Barking-Wrong-Tree-Surprising-Everything/dp/0062416049
Jill’s Links
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