This week’s episode is a solo show!
Takeaways from the show:
- Perception matters
- The goal of behavior is to find and feel a sense of belonging and significance
- Iceberg metaphor
- Mistaken goals: Undue attention
- Connection vs. attention
- Tune into how your kid’s behavior makes you feel
- Parents contribute to beliefs kids have about connection
- The coded message behind annoying behavior is notice me and involve me usefully
- Redirect by involving your kids in a useful task
- Say what you will do
- Avoid special services
- Plan 1 on 1 time with your kids
- Involve your kids in creating routines
Eps 261 | Downloadable Mistaken Goal Chart
See you next week!! :)
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Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens