We Can Do Hard Things 98. How to Live So We Can Die Peacefully with Death Doula Alua Arthur
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May 24, 2022 
Alua Arthur, a death doula and founder of Going with Grace, shares transformative insights on living meaningfully while preparing for death. She introduces the 'deathbed test' to prioritize what truly matters and dispels fears surrounding mortality with her inspiring 'glitter-wave vision.' Alua emphasizes the importance of open conversations about end-of-life planning, offering practical steps to ease the transition for ourselves and our loved ones. Her passion for life encourages listeners to embrace authenticity and cultivate a profound presence in every moment.
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Inspiration for Death Work
- Alua Arthur's work was inspired by a 14-hour bus conversation with a woman in Cuba.
- This woman, facing a terminal illness, lacked support and open conversation about death.
Peter's Illness
- Alua's brother-in-law, Peter, became terminally ill with Burkitt's lymphoma.
- She stayed for two months, providing support and helping her sister navigate Peter's illness and death.
Acknowledging Death
- Openly acknowledging death allows for more meaningful presence and connection.
- It transforms interactions into cherished moments, fostering acceptance and reducing fear.