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The Rabbit Hole

#109 Games People Play by Eric Berne

Mar 26, 2024
Psychiatrist and author Eric Berne delves into the intricate social dynamics of everyday interactions. He explores the roles of ego states in behavior, the concept of 'games' in relationships, and the importance of mutual understanding in social interactions.
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  • Recognizing the three ego states (child, adult, parent) can enhance social interactions.
  • Understanding the structure and importance of social games can improve relationship dynamics.

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Understanding Child Ego States and Transactional Games

Eric Byrne introduces the concept of child ego states, representing early networks developed in life, influencing our behavior. Each ego state - child, adult, and parent - plays a role in decision-making and emotional responses. Byrne emphasizes that transactions adhering to a specific formula constitute games, involving ulterior motives and predictable outcomes. By recognizing these ego states and transactional patterns, individuals can navigate social interactions more effectively.

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