Dr. Morgan Cutlip, a relationship expert and author of 'The Better Share,' explores how marriage transforms after having kids. She reveals the 'invisible weight' mothers often bear and the impact of household responsibilities on relationships. With relatable anecdotes, Morgan emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding in minimizing resentment. Practical strategies are shared to help couples align as partners rather than adversaries, fostering a healthier family dynamic. Tune in for laughter, validation, and hope for marriage post-kids!
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The Balloon Fiasco
Ginny Yurch recounts a frustrating experience preparing for her child's birthday party.
Her husband, Chad, was tasked with getting balloons but hadn't procured them by the day of the party.
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The concept of "she-fault" highlights how default responsibilities often fall on women.
This often leads to resentment.
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Costco Water Bottles
Ginny shares another anecdote where her husband had to buy water bottles for a party of 38.
He asked whether to buy one or two packs of 40, ultimately buying only one despite the need.
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Dr. Morgan Cutlip is back—and this episode might just change everything about how you see your relationship. In one of Ginny’s favorite conversations ever on the podcast, Morgan dives into the real reasons marriage shifts so dramatically after kids. Her new book A Better Share brilliantly names what so many couples experience but can’t quite articulate: the invisible weight of the mental, emotional, and physical labor that moms often carry alone. From party balloons to Costco water bottles, Morgan and Ginny unpack everyday moments that represent something much deeper—why moms are overwhelmed, why resentment creeps in, and why it feels like everything has changed.
But this isn’t a book—or an episode—about blame. It’s about breakthroughs. Morgan shares practical language, frameworks, and scripts to help couples finally get on the same team again. If you’ve ever wondered why you're carrying so much or how to get real help (without another argument), this episode is for you. It’s laugh-out-loud relatable, deeply validating, and packed with hope. Marriage after kids can be good—it just takes a better share.
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