#572: The Unexpected Upsides of Being a Late Bloomer
Dec 30, 2019
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Explore the concept of late bloomers and the cultural shift surrounding it. Learn about the disadvantages of being an early bloomer and the advantages of being a late bloomer, including resilience and self-awareness. Discover the benefits of self-doubt and resilience, and how late bloomers can build a tough skin through experiencing failures. Find out where to get more information about the book and the guest's work.
Late bloomers can bring unique perspectives and skills, challenging the narrative that early success is the only path to achievement.
Late bloomers can use self-doubt as valuable information for making informed decisions, exercising their self-efficacy and agency.
Deep dives
Late Bloomers: Defying Societal Pressure
Late bloomers, individuals who come into their own talents and motivations later than expected, have valuable insights and strengths to offer. While society often celebrates early bloomers who excel at a young age, late bloomers can bring curiosity, resilience, and self-doubt to their journeys. Late bloomers often face societal pressures to achieve early success, particularly in competitive fields like finance and technology. However, research shows that cognitive skills, wisdom, leadership abilities, and communication skills peak at different stages in life, and late bloomers can harness these attributes to thrive. Furthermore, late bloomers have the opportunity to adapt, change environments, and pursue their passions on their own terms, proving that success can come at any stage of life.
The Unique Journey of Late Bloomers
Late bloomers come from diverse backgrounds and experience various factors that contribute to their delayed growth. Factors like physical maturity, family dynamics, undiagnosed problems, or environmental limitations can hinder progress. However, late bloomers have the power to shape their own narratives and overcome societal expectations. By embracing self-doubt, late bloomers can propel themselves forward and use it as a motivator rather than a roadblock. Late bloomers tend to possess valuable attributes such as curiosity, resilience, and self-awareness, enabling them to adapt and succeed in their own time. By recognizing their self-worth and building on their strengths, late bloomers can chart their unique paths to success.
The Rise of Early Bloomers and Shift in Cultural Perspective
In recent years, society has placed increasing value on early bloomers, glorifying those who achieve success at a young age. This societal shift can be attributed to the emphasis on specific fields like finance and technology, where early success is celebrated and rewarded. The economy and its focus on Wall Street and Silicon Valley have further perpetuated the myth that success comes to those who excel early and attend elite universities. Such cultural influences have created intense competition, causing anxiety, burnout, and a lack of well-rounded development in youth. However, historical examples and research reveal that late bloomers can bring unique perspectives and skills to the table, defying societal expectations and challenging the narrative that early success is the only path to achievement.
Late Bloomers: Harnessing Self-Doubt and Embracing Late Maturity
Contrary to popular belief, late bloomers can use self-doubt to their advantage. Late bloomers who doubt themselves are often aware of their limitations and are open to growth and improvement. By recognizing self-doubt as valuable information for making informed decisions, late bloomers can exercise their self-efficacy and agency, making moves that align with their strengths and navigating around their weaknesses. Late bloomers who understand the importance of self-efficacy and self-worth can build resilience, maintain curiosity, and tackle challenges head-on in their quest for personal and professional success.
There's an unspoken timeline that people supposedly need to follow to have a successful life: be a good student in high school, get into a good college, and then get a good job right after you graduate.
But you've probably met successful people whose lives didn't follow this kind of linear arc and neat timeline, and maybe yours didn't either. Their young adult years weren't very auspicious, and they didn't come into their own and find their bearings until after college, or even much later. My guest today explores the upsides of this kind of trajectory in his book: Late Bloomers: The Power of Patience in a World Obsessed with Early Achievement. His name is Rich Karlgaard and we begin our conversation discussing how he defines a late bloomer and a few examples of some famous late bloomers in history. We then dig into how late bloomers got a bad rap and how society became increasingly obsessed with finding success at a young age. Rich then walks us through the disadvantages of being an early bloomer and the advantages of being a late bloomer, including resilience, self-awareness, and a healthy, motivating sense of self-doubt.