Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2833: 6 Tips for Extroverted Parents Who Are Raising Introverted Teens by Veronique Hoebeke with Introvert Dear on Bridging Personality Differences
Dec 14, 2025
Extroverted parents can bridge gaps with their introverted teens through understanding and patience. One key tip is to bond over shared interests by asking about their favorite books or movies. It's crucial to respect their need for solitude while gently encouraging social interactions. Veronique advises against interpreting quietness as rudeness, urging parents to give their teens time to open up. The importance of teaching social skills and watching for signs of mental health issues is emphasized, promoting a supportive environment for growth.
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Raised By Introverts
- Veronique describes being the child of two introverts and contrasts that with friends who had outgoing parents.
- She uses this experience to frame six tips for extroverted parents raising introverted teens.
Accept Your Teen As They Are
- Accept your teen's personality instead of expecting them to mirror yours.
- Avoid implying something is wrong with quieter children because that damages your relationship.
Bond With Them On Their Terms
- Engage your teen in their own territory by asking about books, movies, or interests.
- Suggest one-on-one activities that align with their preferences to build connection.