142. Success, Grief, and Living Boldly w/ Tripp Lanier

"Once it starts to become empty and it doesn't work, that's when it's time to rethink our strategies and find what truly fulfills us." Tripp Lanier

Today on Men, This Way:

• 00:01 Introductions
• 02:34 Announcement of Last Episode and Transition of Show's Name
• 03:23 Reflections on the Past and Initiating the Main Discussion
• 05:08 Introduction of Tripp Lanier and His Work
• 07:24 Tripp's Personal Journey and Path to Coaching
• 09:01 Introduction to Men's Work and Personal Growth
• 12:01 The Shift in Men's Conversations Over Time
• 13:45 The Role of Media and Privacy in Personal Development
• 15:10 The Challenge of Admitting the Need for Help
• 16:32 Exploration of New Beginnings and Reflections on Personal Growth
• 18:00 Shifts in Personal Interests and Professional Evolution
• 19:28 The Ongoing Journey of Personal and Spiritual Development
• 21:18 The Modern Challenges and Evolutions Facing Men
• 22:46 Reflections on Personal Satisfaction and Life's Deeper Questions
• 24:11 Discussion of Future Plans and Podcast Rebranding
• 25:43 Reflections on Ambition and Life Stages
• 27:03 Personal Insights on Marriage and Family
• 29:26 Discussing the Awareness of Mortality and Its Impact
• 30:12 Philosophical Reflections on Life and Aging
• 31:30 Grief and Learning from Life's Challenges
• 33:36 Engaging Men in Meaningful Conversations and Facing Grief
• 34:03 How to Encourage Men to Stay Present and Engaged in Growth
• 36:04 Addressing Personal Struggles and Embracing New Beginnings
• 38:04 Listening and Understanding as Tools for Helping Others
• 39:20 The Power of Empathy in Men's Development
• 40:10 The Relief of Discovering One Is Not Alone in Their Struggles
• 41:38 Humor's Role in Healing and Personal Growth
• 42:57 Tripp's Views on Success and Personal Fulfillment
• 44:45 Helping Men Identify and Pursue Their True Desires
• 46:50 Discussion on the Nature of Desire and Internal Conflicts
• 48:42 The Importance of Play and Joy in Personal Development
• 50:42 The Role of Safety and Threat Perception in Playfulness
• 52:24 The Challenges of Maintaining Joy During Difficult Times
• 54:47 Wrapping Up the Podcast and Reflections on the Journey
• 58:15 Maintaining Deep Connections and Embracing New Learning Opportunities
• 59:55 Closing Thoughts and Acknowledgments

Takeaways of this episode:

• Tripp Lanier shares personal stories, including his past struggles, the death of his mother, and how these events have shaped his personal growth and professional life. 
• The importance of men’s work, creating spaces for men to explore their vulnerabilities, and the impact of community and belonging. 
• Maintaining a balance between playfulness and the seriousness of life, how staying connected to a sense of play can be crucial for mental health and relationship dynamics.
• The definition of success, the ongoing process of personal growth, and the existential aspects of life and death.
• The podcast episode serves as a closing of one era and the beginning of another.

Connect with Tripp:

• Website: tripplinear.com
• Instagram: @tripplanier
• Order: This Book Will Make You Dangerous: The Irreverent Guide for Men Who Refuse to Settle
• Listen to: The New Man with Tripp Lanier

Connect with Bryan & Tait:

• Website: bryanreeves.com 
• Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08
• Email: bryan@menthisway.com / tait@menthisway.com