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The Imperfects

Another Imperfect Chat About Men

Aug 1, 2024
Chanel Contos is an advocate working with Teach Us Consent, dedicated to tackling issues of consent and behavior. In this enlightening discussion, she shares insights on vulnerability and the importance of open conversations about violence and consent. The conversation covers the complexities of masculinity, the societal pressures that define aggressive behavior, and the critical nature of empathy in relationships. They also explore ways to break the cycle of shame in sports, encouraging men to reflect on their past actions and foster a positive dialogue.
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  • The discussion highlights how societal norms often equate violence with status, creating complex feelings of excitement and fear in men.
  • The conversation emphasizes the critical need for active communication and understanding of consent in fostering safe and healthy relationships.

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Understanding Violence and Its Impact

The discussion delves into the complexities of violence and how it was perceived in childhood and adolescence. Participants reflect on their experiences with violence, noting how witnessing or partaking in fights was often celebrated among peers, creating a culture where violence equated to status. They acknowledge a sheltered upbringing that largely lacked direct exposure to severe violence, leading to conflicting feelings of excitement and fear when experiencing violence among peers. This conversation highlights the broader societal acceptance of violence, especially in contexts like sports, where such behaviors were often trivialized or celebrated.

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