Another Imperfect Chat About Men

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Aug 1, 2024

Chanel Contos is an advocate working with Teach Us Consent, dedicated to tackling issues of consent and behavior. In this enlightening discussion, she shares insights on vulnerability and the importance of open conversations about violence and consent. The conversation covers the complexities of masculinity, the societal pressures that define aggressive behavior, and the critical nature of empathy in relationships. They also explore ways to break the cycle of shame in sports, encouraging men to reflect on their past actions and foster a positive dialogue.

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Intro

00:00 • 2min

Navigating Vulnerability and Consent in Conversations about Violence

02:05 • 4min

The Complexity of Masculinity and Violence

06:05 • 28min

Exploring Consent and Male Perspectives on Relationships

34:30 • 4min

Breaking the Cycle of Shame in Sports

38:51 • 17min

Encouraging Honest Conversations Among Men

55:23 • 3min

This is not compulsory listening, but then again, it kind of is.

We’re back to have another imperfect conversation about men, violence and consent, because we're still imperfect and we believe reflecting on behaviour is key to changing it.

We don't have all the answers, but in collaboration with Teach Us Consent and future OAM Chanel Contos, we’ve come up with some new Vulnerabilitea House questions to help anyone get vulnerable and think deeply about these issues.

In all honesty, we’re pretty nervous about answering them, but reflecting and getting vulnerable with ourselves and others is how we do better and become the people we want to be.

You can find the questions on our instagram: https://bit.ly/4dnfjvO

Vulnerability is the willingness to be seen as our authentic selves, even when we don’t know how others will respond. To be vulnerable is to take an emotional risk and while it does promote connection, it can also cause distress and should never be forced. So take care of yourself and others while answering these questions. Always vulnerable responsibly.

To watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link - https://bit.ly/4fx8lWP

🎧Things to listen to

Chanel Contos - Consensual Healing - https://link.chtbl.com/mhDPOcpH
An Imperfect Chat About Men - https://link.chtbl.com/BVlSy3Kf

📖Things to read

Chanel Contos - Consent Laid Bare - https://bit.ly/3RNKpEm
Malcolm Gladwell - Blink - https://bit.ly/3WG8Er7

💻 Things to help you learn

Teach Us Consent Instagram - https://bit.ly/4dlzKJG
Teach Us Consent Website - https://www.teachusconsent.com
Our Watch - https://bit.ly/3w0BQhV
White Ribbon - https://bit.ly/3W6nMhs

If you're a man concerned about your behaviour please contact No To Violence: https://bit.ly/3UlyiA5

If you feel like you are in immediate danger please call 000. If you need someone to talk to we recommend the nation24-hour national sexual assault, family and domestic violence counselling line 1800 RESPECT on 1800 732 732.

If you need support for your own mental health of the back of this episode please contact Lifeline on 13 11 14.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.