

3656: The Opposite of Loneliness by Ryan Frederick of Here.life on Intentional Lifestyle Design
8 snips Jul 5, 2025
Loneliness is becoming a critical issue that impacts health as severely as smoking. Thoughtful living choices can promote social connections and belonging. Ryan Frederick discusses innovative models like co-housing and walkable communities that support deeper relationships. He emphasizes the importance of communal spaces and intentional design in combating isolation. Simple acts of kindness and a community spirit can transform feelings of loneliness into connection, creating a more vibrant and supportive environment for everyone.
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No Word for Opposite of Loneliness
- English has no true opposite word for loneliness, making it a complex feeling beyond simple definition.
- Marina Keegan described this opposite as a deep feeling of belonging and being on a team with others.
Loneliness is a Rising Epidemic
- Loneliness has doubled since the 1980s and impacts lifespan like smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
- Living alone greatly increases loneliness, especially for older adults worldwide.
Lonely Among Many Example
- A Canadian grocer's viral video "Eat Together" showed many people in the same building still feel disconnected.
- This illustrates that loneliness can happen even when living among many people.