Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo 2920 Win Your Spouse's Heart
I wish I could tell you that having a great marriage didn't require work of any kind. But that's not the way it works in real life.
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If you want to win your spouse's heart, you have to build a deep emotional connection and make them feel valued and loved.
That's going to require much effort, patience, and understanding.
As the Bible teaches, marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman, and it is important to treat your spouse with respect, love, and kindness.
But unfortunately, our friends and strangers get the better end of the deal. We are kind to them and serve them well. Yet we yell at our spouse not because of what they did, but what the world did to us that day.
Ring a bell?!?
This is real life!
That's why we need to be reminded to win our spouses' hearts.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Win your spouse's heart!Be selfless and put their needs before your own. Philippians 2:3 ~ "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves." This means that you should be willing to sacrifice your own desires and interests for the sake of your spouse. However, that doesn't mean that you don't consider yourself, too. There is a balance, and various seasons call for various measures.
Be a good listener. James 1:19 ~ "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." This means that you should be willing to hear your spouse out and understand their perspective, instead of always thinking that your own point of view is right.
See your spouse as God sees them. Ephesians 5:25 ~ "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." This means that we should love our spouse as Christ loves us, with a love that is selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional. Ephesians 5:22-33 It talks about "Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord." Keep it in context at the end where it says, "However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."
Keep in mind. You both are on the same team!
Win your spouse's heart with selflessness, good communication, and seeing them through God's eyes; it's the heavenly perspective. And that means, forgiveness comes, too.
By practicing these principles, you get to strengthen your marriage and build a deeper connection with your spouse.
Ultimately, that's the goal; share life together!
PRAYER: Lift up your spouse as God lifts you. Don't go for all the glory. Do life together. May your love for each other grow deeper and wider as you forge through life's mountains and valleys. Your soulmate sleeps next to you. Treat him/her with the unconditional love and grace shown to you by God.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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