Jillian on Love

The Habit That Destroys Relationships

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Jul 7, 2025
Explore the hidden habit that could be sabotaging your relationships: keeping score. This intriguing discussion reveals how this pattern fosters resentment and emotional distance. Discover the differences in how men and women express love, and learn why recognizing efforts can thrive emotional intimacy. Stress and lack of appreciation are highlighted as barriers to connection, while breaking toxic patterns is key for deeper fulfillment. Join the journey towards healthier dynamics, open communication, and transformative relationships.
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Scorekeeping Destroys Relationships

  • Keeping score in relationships silently kills attraction and emotional intimacy.
  • It often happens unconsciously and quickly destroys trust between partners.
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Different Ways of Giving Love

  • Men and women often give love differently, shaped by masculine and feminine energies.
  • Misunderstandings arise when each partner doesn't recognize the other's way of giving.
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Emotional Exhaustion Triggers Scorekeeping

  • Women often keep score when feeling emotionally exhausted and depleted.
  • Men need appreciation for acts of service to feel purposeful and motivated to keep giving.
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