Life Kit What happens after someone cheats
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Jul 29, 2024 
Talal Alsaleem, a psychologist and licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in infidelity recovery, dives into the complexities of cheating and its aftermath. He discusses the emotional challenges faced by couples, offering insights on establishing relationship contracts to clarify expectations. Talal also highlights the importance of transparency and cutting ties with affair partners for rebuilding trust. Listeners learn about recognizing red flags and the individualized nature of healing, emphasizing that recovery is a personal journey without a strict timeline.
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Discuss Exclusivity Early
- Discuss exclusivity expectations early in a relationship, not just hobbies or interests.
- Ask about their views on pornography, flirting, and emotional boundaries to ensure long-term compatibility.
Immediate Steps After Discovery
- After discovering infidelity, stay in the same house if safety allows, minimizing isolation and uncertainty.
- Limit sharing the news to avoid external influence on important decisions and future damage control.
Red Flags for Infidelity
- A major red flag for potential infidelity is a partner's resistance to transparency, conflating it with autonomy.
- Poor boundaries with coworkers or exes also signal potential issues.