We Can Do Hard Things

57. Walking Our People Through Hard Things with Kate Bowler

Dec 30, 2021
In this engaging conversation, Kate Bowler, a Duke University professor and New York Times bestselling author, shares her insights on navigating difficult conversations with those who are struggling. She discusses the importance of offering genuine support, often through awkward but heartfelt gestures. Kate opens up about anticipatory grief and the reality that we can't always fix the pain for our loved ones. Her blend of humor and wisdom encourages listeners to embrace beauty and art as coping mechanisms during tough times.
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ADVICE

Avoid "At Least"

  • Avoid starting sentences with "at least" when someone shares something painful.
  • This relativizes their pain and diminishes their experience.
ADVICE

No Empty Promises

  • Refrain from saying "it's going to get better, I promise."
  • Offer your presence instead of empty promises.
ADVICE

Avoid Clichés about God

  • Never say "God needed another angel" after someone dies.
  • It's theologically inaccurate and insensitive.
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