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Dr. Michael Gervais on Not Caring What People Think and the Future of Stoicism (Pt 1)

Jan 31, 2024
Dr. Michael Gervais, a high-performance psychologist known for his work with elite athletes and leaders, joins the discussion to tackle the 'Fear of Other People's Opinions' (FOPO). He shares insights on overcoming imposter syndrome and emphasizes the need for self-assessment over external validation. The conversation evolves to address how societal pressures affect our self-identity and creativity while advocating for authenticity. Gervais also introduces themes from his new book, championing the importance of emotional awareness within Stoicism.
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Quick takeaways

  • Master the things that are within your control rather than obsessing over things that are not.
  • Approach stoicism with compassion towards emotions to make better decisions and be more empathetic.

Deep dives

The importance of separating what is in our control and what is not

The essence of stoicism is separating things into two categories: that which is in our control and that which is not. Epictetus emphasizes that our focus should be on mastering the things that are 100% under our control, such as our effort, rather than being consumed by outcomes that are not entirely within our control.

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