The Daily Stoic

Dr. Michael Gervais on Not Caring What People Think and the Future of Stoicism (Pt 1)

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Jan 31, 2024
Dr. Michael Gervais, a high-performance psychologist known for his work with elite athletes and leaders, joins the discussion to tackle the 'Fear of Other People's Opinions' (FOPO). He shares insights on overcoming imposter syndrome and emphasizes the need for self-assessment over external validation. The conversation evolves to address how societal pressures affect our self-identity and creativity while advocating for authenticity. Gervais also introduces themes from his new book, championing the importance of emotional awareness within Stoicism.
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INSIGHT

External Validation Over Self-Assessment

  • We care more about external validation than our own judgment, especially after investing heavily in something.
  • This makes us vulnerable to the opinions of strangers who may be biased or uninformed.
INSIGHT

Internal vs. External Focus

  • Strong individuals don't let the external world dictate their internal experiences.
  • Focus on internal principles, not external noise, for true self-worth.
ANECDOTE

The Cool Kid Lean

  • Dr. Gervais recounts pretending to look cool in his truck for a stranger who didn't even notice.
  • This experience highlighted the embarrassment and inauthenticity of seeking external validation.
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