#10 Don't Fear Your Full Potential (The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker)
Sep 22, 2023
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Topics discussed in this podcast include motivations behind our actions, the pursuit of heroism, fear of death, living up to our full potential, engaging authentically, and the necessity of creating meaning in life.
Being honest about our underlying motivations and subconscious drivers is essential in understanding our actions.
The fear of death influences human behavior and the quest for heroic impact stems from a fear of insignificance.
Deep dives
The Dual Question: Why Do You Think You Do What You Do?
The podcast explores the two parts of the question: why do you think you do what you do and why do you actually do what you do? It emphasizes the challenge of being honest about underlying motivations and the significance of subconscious drivers that push us into action.
The Myth of Heroism and the Fear of Insignificance
The podcast discusses the belief that each person is driven to be significant and make an impact on the world. It explores the connection between the hero myth and our innate desire for heroic impact. The discussion also highlights the fear of insignificance and the ways in which society creates mythical hero systems to satisfy this need.
The Terror of Death and the Existential Paradox
The podcast delves into the fear of death and its influence on human behavior. It explores the paradox of being both divine and mortal, and the existential struggle to reconcile our grand potential with our finite existence. The discussion highlights the role of heroism as a reflex of the terror of death, and the significance of heroes who have defied death throughout history.
Overcoming Anxiety and Embracing Authenticity
The podcast offers insights on facing anxiety and achieving authenticity. It emphasizes the importance of engaging fully with life, embracing imperfections, and channeling creative energy into meaningful projects. The discussion encourages individuals to cultivate a sense of self-security and to live on their own symbolic terms, transcending mere cultural heroism.
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(00:00) Why Do You Do What You Do? (02:07) How Do You Feel Heroic? (11:22) The Fear of Death (15:07) Evolution and Anxiety (17:34) Why Aren’t We More Courageous? (21:36) Struggle as a False Sense of Control (24:10) Automatic Cultural Man (NPCs) (28:03) The Foundation of Self Belief (31:10) Cosmic Heroism (33:36) Looking for Meaning (38:01) How to Live
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