Sex With Emily

Finding Your Fantasy w/ Elle Chase

Jul 12, 2024

Sex educator and author Elle Chase joins Emily to discuss cultivating erotic daydreams, fantasies revealing desire styles, turning fantasies into realities like finding friends with benefits. Topics include talking to a partner about fantasies, responding to different desires, and maximizing pleasure in relationships.

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Elle Chase

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Quick takeaways

Explore and communicate fantasies, enhancing intimacy with partners.

Understand and share desires to strengthen relationships and sexual experiences.

Maintain intimacy in long-distance relationships through communication and technology.

Deep dives

Discovering the Importance of Genuine Connection

Exploring the shift in modern relationships towards prioritizing genuine connection and intimacy over casual encounters, along with the significance of exploring fantasies and desires to enhance sexual experiences.

Intro

5min

Navigating Intimacy and Relationships on Dating Apps

6min

Exploring Sexual Fantasies and Desires

9min

Exploring Diverse Forms of Intimacy and Communication in Sexual Relationships

3min

Navigating Fantasies and Relationships

5min

Exploring Fantasies and Desires Through Communication

19min

Exploring Turn-Ons and Turn-Offs in Sex

2min

Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to find your fantasies and how to talk to your new partner about them
What to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross
How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it)

Show Notes:

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Sex With Emily

Finding Your Fantasy w/ Elle Chase

Episode guests

Podcast summary created with Snipd AI

Quick takeaways

Deep dives

Discovering the Importance of Genuine Connection

Navigating Sexual Fantasies and Personal Desires

Overcoming Challenges in Long-Distance Relationships

Addressing Issues of Sexual Compatibility

Empowering Authentic Expression and Sexual Exploration

Remember Everything You Learn from Podcasts