Sex educator and author Elle Chase joins Emily to discuss cultivating erotic daydreams, fantasies revealing desire styles, turning fantasies into realities like finding friends with benefits. Topics include talking to a partner about fantasies, responding to different desires, and maximizing pleasure in relationships.
Explore and communicate fantasies, enhancing intimacy with partners.
Understand and share desires to strengthen relationships and sexual experiences.
Maintain intimacy in long-distance relationships through communication and technology.
Deep dives
Discovering the Importance of Genuine Connection
Exploring the shift in modern relationships towards prioritizing genuine connection and intimacy over casual encounters, along with the significance of exploring fantasies and desires to enhance sexual experiences.
Navigating Sexual Fantasies and Personal Desires
Delving into the complexities of sexual fantasies, emphasizing the importance of cultivating a rich fantasy life and understanding individual desires, while highlighting the role of communication in exploring and sharing fantasies with partners.
Overcoming Challenges in Long-Distance Relationships
Providing tips for maintaining intimacy and arousal in long-distance relationships, including engaging in phone sex, exploring sexual fantasies together, and using technology to enhance connection and pleasure.
Addressing Issues of Sexual Compatibility
Discussing the impact of differing sexual preferences on relationships, navigating challenges such as discomfort with certain sexual acts, and advocating for open communication to address concerns and explore mutual pleasure.
Empowering Authentic Expression and Sexual Exploration
Encouraging open dialogue about sexual satisfaction and preferences, advocating for vulnerability, self-discovery, and mutual exploration in enhancing sexual experiences and fostering deeper connections with partners.
Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to find your fantasies and how to talk to your new partner about them
What to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross
How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it)