PsycHacks Episode 440: Never meet halfway (understanding what a date is)
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Jun 24, 2024 Explore the intriguing definition of a date as a mix of connection and sexual possibility. Discover why meeting halfway might hinder genuine interaction and how location can amplify intimacy. The conversation dives into traditional dating dynamics, examining how location can impact equality in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their personal experiences while appreciating the nuances of planning the perfect date.
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Date Defined as Connection + Sexual Possibility
- A date is defined as connection plus sexual possibility, not just either in isolation.
- This combination allows both parties to get what they want emotionally and physically, making the date an ideal social creation.
Avoid Meeting Halfway on Dates
- Do not meet halfway for a date as it limits sexual possibility due to logistical difficulties.
- Men should plan dates close to their place to facilitate easier transition to a private setting.
Halfway Coffee Meeting Isn’t a Date
- Meeting for coffee halfway is often not a date but a screening interview with no sexual possibility.
- This approach benefits women wanting connection and resources without sexual opportunity, disrupting true dating.
