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Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

#1220 - Careless People Rule the World

Apr 6, 2025
13:52

Justin and Kylie dive into two powerful reads—Mel Robbins' The Let Them Theory and Sarah Wynn-Williams’ explosive memoir Careless People: A Cautionary Tale of Power, Greed, and Lost Idealism. While Kylie champions the liberating message of letting go of control, Justin offers a scathing but thoughtful critique of Facebook's inner workings, as revealed in Wynn-Williams' book. Together, they unpack how these ideas relate to parenting and the digital world our children are growing up in.

KEY POINTS:

  • The Let Them Theory emphasises personal boundaries and not needing to fix or control others.

  • Careless People reveals shocking behind-the-scenes practices at Facebook, particularly how the platform targets emotionally vulnerable teenagers for advertising.

  • The tech industry's influence extends to global politics, youth mental health, and everyday family life.

  • Memoirs can be a powerful vehicle for truth, shedding light on corporate irresponsibility.

  • Parents need to be alert to the digital environments their children inhabit.

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:

  1. Talk to your children about how social media works—especially how it might exploit their emotions.

  2. Consider setting digital boundaries in your home, including times for device-free connection.

  3. Read Careless People to better understand the systems shaping your family’s digital life.

  4. Practice the “let them” mindset by releasing control over things that don’t require your intervention.

  5. Stay informed—knowledge is power when it comes to parenting in a digital world.

The Let Them Theory' by Mel Robbins.

Careless People: A Cautionary Tale of Power, Greed, and Lost Idealism by Sarah Wynn-Williams.

Listen to Honestly With Bari Weiss - Meet Sarah Wynn-Williams, Facebook’s Highest-Ranking Whistleblower

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