Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - Part of Me Wants to Cheat Part One
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Jan 22, 2024 A woman grapples with intrusive thoughts of infidelity while in a loving relationship, raising questions about desire versus loyalty. The conversation delves into her unresolved trauma and the inner conflict sparked by these fantasies. They explore the complexities of attachment and how past experiences shape current emotions. Vulnerability and open dialogue emerge as crucial elements for healing and deepening intimacy. Throughout, the discussion balances the temptations of infidelity with the genuine quest for emotional connection.
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Intrusive Thoughts in a Relationship
- The caller is in a loving relationship but experiences intrusive thoughts about cheating.
- These thoughts are frequent and distressing, despite not acting on them.
Exploring the Intrusive Thoughts
- Esther Perel and the caller explore the nature of the caller's intrusive thoughts.
- They discuss the caller's previous relationships and a past sexual assault.
Naming the Voice
- The caller names the intrusive voice "Evil Me."
- Esther Perel suggests exploring the voice's purpose and message.