Betwixt The Sheets: The History of Sex, Scandal & Society

History (and Future) of Dating

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Dec 10, 2024
Francesca Beauman, author of "Shapely Ankle Preferr’d," dives into the quirky world of lonely hearts advertisements, revealing how they transformed dating from formal courtship to personalized pursuits. She shares intriguing stories, including the impact of World War I on these ads. Ana Kirova, CEO of dating app Feeld, discusses the evolution to modern dating apps and Gen Z's expectations, highlighting societal shifts and technological influences that have reshaped the search for love today.
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ANECDOTE

Early Lonely Hearts Ads

  • Francesca Beauman's interest in lonely hearts ads stemmed from her own dating experiences, leading her to research their origins.
  • While initial research suggested a 20th-century origin, Beauman discovered ads dating back to 1695 in the British Library.
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Technology and Relationships

  • Lonely hearts ads appeared alongside early newspapers and magazines, mirroring how humans use new technologies for relationships and sex.
  • Whether it's the printing press or the internet, building relationships and sex are among the first uses humans find for new technologies.
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The First Lonely Hearts Ad

  • The earliest lonely hearts ad, found in a 1695 pamphlet, was placed amongst ads for apprenticeships, horses, and furniture.
  • This ad sought a "good young gentlewoman" with a substantial fortune, highlighting the commercialization of matchmaking.
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