everybody has a secret propose or gtfo
Dec 4, 2025
This discussion dives into the complexities of proposals, featuring a survey on engagement timelines and the expectations that come with them. The hosts debate whether waiting years for a proposal shows commitment or creates doubts. They also consider the role of ultimatums in relationships and share intriguing stories about engagements revealing deeper issues. Plus, the conversation touches on modern reasons for marriage, preferences for surprise rings, and the rising trend of equal agency in double proposals. Join them as they explore love and commitment in today's world!
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Proposals Aren't One-Size-Fits-All
- Proposing can be reclaimed from traditional gender roles and still spark online debate.
- Public judgment often misses private context about couples' conversations and wants.
Tell Your Partner Your Timeline
- Communicate early and clearly about marriage timelines if it's important to you.
- Ask your partner directly what they want to avoid wasted years and resentment.
Set Boundaries Around Big Milestones
- Set boundaries and revisit alignment if your partner delays a promised milestone.
- Explain that misaligned timelines may require reconsidering the relationship's future.