The School of Greatness

Unlock the Language of CONNECTION: 3 HACKS for Supercommunicators to Build TRUST & INFLUENCE

May 10, 2024

Join Pulitzer Prize-winning author Charles Duhigg as he unveils secrets from his book on enhancing communication, aiming for deeper connections. Actress Jameela Jamil shares powerful strategies for self-expression, advocating for speaking up and inspiring change. Relationship coach Matthew Hussey emphasizes authenticity, urging listeners to focus on genuine interactions rather than trying to impress. Together, they explore vulnerability and connection, providing transformative insights that can change the way you engage with others.

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Charles Duhigg

Matthew Hussey

Jameela Jamil

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Quick takeaways

Enhance communication skills for deeper connections by unlocking the 'secret language' of effective communication.

Prioritize authenticity, vulnerability, and connecting over impressing in successful relationships for meaningful connections.

Master effective self-expression to empower personal advocacy, inspire others, and drive transformative changes in personal and communal lives.

Deep dives

The Impact of Abandonment on Communication

Growing up witnessing her dad leaving the room when faced with a hard conversation, a woman struggles with expressing needs or disappointments as it triggers deep-rooted abandonment fears. This pattern of avoidance extends to personal relationships, dampening her ability to communicate effectively.

Understanding Different Types of Conversations

01:20

Successful Episodes and Emotional Reciprocity

00:39

Prioritize Connection Over Impressing

00:31

The dark and naive ends of love bombing

01:22

Intro

2min

The Art of Connection: Deep Listening in Relationships

19min

Transforming Travel into Opportunity and Authentic Connections

3min

The Power of Authentic Connection

21min

Understanding Emotional Patterns in Relationships

3min

Unpacking the Fear of Difficult Conversations in Relationships

5min

Grace, Accountability, and Community

15min

Embracing Inclusivity in Fitness

3min

Empowerment Through Mental Health

8min

10.

The Essential Nature of Mental Health and Connection

2min

11.

Embracing Growth: The Power of Constructive Criticism

2min

12.

Embracing Worth and Celebrating Maytag Month

2min

Are you ready to transform your communication skills and build deeper, more meaningful relationships? In this episode of The School of Greatness, Lewis explores the art of communication with three exceptional guests. First, Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize-winning reporter and bestselling author, reveals insights from his new book "Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection," sharing practical tips on how to enhance your communication skills for deeper connections. Next, relationship coach and author Matthew Hussey discusses the secrets to successful relationships, emphasizing the power of authenticity, the importance of giving up superficial attention, and distinguishing between impressing and connecting. Lastly, actress and advocate Jameela Jamil shares her compelling strategies for effective self-expression and advocacy, demonstrating how mastering communication can empower us to speak up for ourselves and inspire others, leading to transformative changes in our personal and communal lives.

In this episode you will learn

How to unlock the "secret language" of effective communication for deeper connections.
The role of authenticity and vulnerability in successful relationships.
How to distinguish between impressing and truly connecting with others.
The importance of giving up superficial attention to attract what you truly need.
How effective communication can empower personal advocacy and inspire transformative change.

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You can find the full episodes from guests featured today here:

Charles Duhigg – https://link.chtbl.com/1580-pod

Matthew Hussey – https://link.chtbl.com/1590-pod

Jameela Jamil – https://link.chtbl.com/1499-pod

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