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In this podcast episode, the speaker emphasizes the significance of being authentic in relationships. Many people try to be someone they're not in order to attract a partner, but this leads to unsustainable relationships. It is essential to be true to oneself and present our real selves in order to attract a compatible partner. The speaker highlights the dangers of trying to embellish who we are in the early stages of a relationship, as it can lead to disappointment and resentment later on. Being authentic allows for genuine connections and lasting relationships.
The podcast explores the differences between love and infatuation. Love is often confused with various things, such as friendship and attachment. The speaker emphasizes that love involves a deeper understanding of the individual, while infatuation is based on a fantasy and often lacks a true connection. Infatuation can lead to assumptions of love due to intense feelings, but it is essential to evaluate if the connection is based on who the person truly is or just superficial qualities. Understanding the difference between love and infatuation can help individuals navigate relationships and make more authentic and fulfilling choices.
The podcast explores the importance of having courage in love and relationships. The speaker emphasizes the need to let go of fears and embrace vulnerability in order to fully experience love. It takes courage to be authentic and open to the possibility of heartbreak, but the rewards of love outweigh the potential risks. By facing past traumas and addressing unresolved issues, individuals can find the courage to lean into love and create deeper connections. Heartbreak is seen as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery, leading to greater understanding and fulfillment in future relationships.
The podcast discusses the process of navigating heartbreak and finding growth from breakups. The speaker encourages individuals to view heartbreak as a learning experience rather than a loss. Breakups can be seen as blessings in disguise, allowing for personal growth and the opportunity to find a better match. It is important to shift perspectives and focus on the lessons learned from the relationship and the potential for future growth. By understanding the reasons behind a breakup and addressing personal traumas, individuals can use heartbreak as a catalyst for self-improvement and attracting healthier relationships in the future.
The inability for men to connect with their masculine energy significantly affects women's feelings of safety and their level of attraction towards men. It is observed that lower levels of testosterone in men today lead to decreased assertiveness, focus, drive, and libido, which can make them less desirable to women. Women desire a sense of safety, emotionally and financially, and a man's ability to provide and take care of himself contributes to that feeling. Men who struggle to tap into their true potential hinder their own growth and become less desirable to women.
Men who have commitment issues or feel restricted in relationships often have a perception that deeper commitment means less freedom and fewer options. However, it can be reframed to understand that commitment actually brings the most freedom when the right person is chosen. It is essential to have open and honest discussions about individual values and expectations early on in relationships. Understanding each other's needs and finding alignment can lead to creating a framework for a committed and fulfilling partnership that honors both individuals' desires for closeness or personal space.
A deep spiritual connection is crucial for the longevity and devotion in a relationship. It is suggested that by cultivating a spiritual connection within oneself, individuals can experience a sense of devotion to their partner, which diminishes feelings of desire for alternative experiences and infidelity. Creating a strong spiritual foundation allows for a deeper understanding of oneself and a clearer perception of alignment with a partner. Making decisions guided by the spirit's wisdom can provide insight beyond what logic and understanding can offer. An evolved man acknowledges and honors the feminine energy within himself and values the true freedom of a woman to be her authentic self, whether that includes career pursuits or prioritizing home and family life.
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Relationship expert Stephan Speaks shares his wisdom and expertise on how to cultivate a thriving and healthy relationship. He delves into the nuances between love and infatuation, providing valuable insights on how to distinguish between these intense emotions and last after the honeymoon phase. He sheds light on the common blockages that keep people from falling in love - from courting while dating to co-dependancy. Stephan also reveals the 3 factors that determine if your relationship is going to work.
Cultivating healthy masculine and feminine dynamics within a partnership is crucial for sustainable and harmonious relationships. Stephan shares invaluable advice on fostering a balanced and supportive dynamic, allowing each partner to thrive authentically.
On the flip-side of falling in love, heartbreak can be one of our greatest teachers in life. Stephan and André discuss how to heal after a breakup and cultivate the courage to start dating again.
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Timecodes:
0:00 Intro
1:22 Exciting Update with Know Thyself
2:29 The Difference Between Love and Infatuation
4:27 Is it Trauma-Bonding or Genuine Attraction?
6:22 How to Heal Neediness & Co-dependancy
8:44 3 Factors that Determine If a Relationship Works (Chemistry, Compatibility, Connection)
12:54 Why Courting Ruins Relationships
16:11 Using Relationships as a Mirror for your Growth
20:44 Stephan’s Journey of Becoming His True Self
25:13 The Power of Authenticity
29:18 Cultivating the Courage to Fall in Love Again
36:01 When to Lean in vs. When to Let Go
41:02 How to Heal Through Heartbreak
46:53 Why Some Women Like Bad Boys
49:35 This is a HUGE Problem for Men...
52:38 Why He Has Commitment Issues
58:45 Spiritual Connection in relationship
1:01:58 Getting Clear on What You Want
1:05:50 Can They Change? Pattern vs Potential
1:10:04 “You Complete Me”
1:13:18 Navigating The Biological Pressure to Have Kids
1:19:20 Revering and Supporting the Feminine
1:25:55 Everybody Needs to Heal
1:27:49 Conclusion
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Stephan Labossiere is a man on a mission, and that mission is to make relationships happier and more fulfilling.
As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. From understanding the opposite sex, to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight helps countless individuals achieve an authentically amazing life. Stephan empowers millions to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the life and love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.
Dedicated to helping, and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward, yet compassionate delivery style, attracts a versatile clientele including; notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth!
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/
Website: https://www.stephanspeaks.com
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Know Thyself
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