The “Invisible Challenges" and Life Transitions in Neurodiverse Relationships-Karen Watson

Karen Watson is an AANE certified therapist who provides insight into her professional experience working with neurodiverse couples and her personal experience in a neurodiverse relationship.  During one of her therapy sessions, Karen's therapist suggested that she might be married to an autistic man and through that new lens, the way she viewed her marriage began to change.  Because of her personal experience, Karen knows how important it is for neurodiverse couples to work with a therapist who understands neurodiverse adults and neurodiverse couples.  Many "invisible challenges"  may be present that  couples (and therapists) may not understand.  These invisible challenges that are due to neurological differences can present as sensory difficulties, theory of mind challenges and cognitive differences.   In addition, Karen talks about how the current system creates challenges for obtaining a formal diagnosis for those who want to move in that direction. Karen also addresses many other important issues including: Asking for what you need. The importance of perspective taking. Changing the way we look at our partners...be curious, rather then hurt. The impact of trauma for both partners. Understanding and preparing for "life transitions". Learning about the cycle of shame. The value of taking "time outs" and using "code words". Accommodations that may need to be made in a therapists office, when working with neurodiverse couples. Believing your partner when they say "I don't know" and understanding this is not an excuse. Both partners adapting and understanding when a "relief valve" is needed.  You can contact Karen at: www.creativewisdomcounseling.com _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ If you are interested in becoming an AANE certified therapist, or coach, or would like to register for the "Neurology Matters' training available through AANE, for couples or individuals in neurodiverse relationships, you can register at: aane.thinkific.com.  Please use the code NeurodiverseLove25 to get 25% off the registration fee.  To learn more about AANE, or to find an AANE certified therapist or coach in your area, please click here and look at the map halfway down the page. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ If you liked this episode, please rate it, provide a review, and subscribe to the podcast, so you don't miss an episode. For more information about the support groups available for "neurodiverse couples" or the "neurotypical/non-autistic partners", please check out: www.neurodiverselove.com or follow Mona on Instagram @neurodiverse_love.   You can also contact Mona at: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com. Thank you for being a part of the Neurodiverse Love community!