The Jordan Harbinger Show 1212: Orion Taraban | Understanding Relationship Economics Part One
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Sep 23, 2025 
In this engaging discussion, psychologist Orion Taraban, a relationship researcher who dives deep into attraction and mating strategies, unpacks the unspoken truths behind dating and relationships. He reveals that relationships can be more transactional than we admit, with people often misrepresenting what they truly want. Men and women prioritize perceived value in partners, and attraction dynamics play a crucial role before commitment. Additionally, the motivations behind infidelity diverge significantly between genders, providing fascinating insights into modern dating behavior.
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Perceived Best Option Rules Relationships
- People are in relationships with their perceived best available option, combining psychological perception and economic value.
- Attraction and perceived value determine partner choice more than stated preferences.
Work Both Sides: Psychology And Market Value
- Combine psychological work with understanding sexual marketplace value rather than relying on one perspective.
- Attend to both attraction signals and real-world value to improve dating outcomes.
Attraction Comes Before Kindness
- People often state they want kindness and safety but actually want those traits only from partners they're already attracted to.
- Attraction precedes other relationship qualities and determines whether those qualities matter.
