087: Coaching with Lian: How to Handle Swearing and Hitting

[0:50] What to do if your child uses profanity excessively

[3:50] How Lian has tried putting limits on this issue so far

[6:10] Why we can't ignore troubling behavior

[10:40] What to do if the behavior isn't due to lack of attention

[12:50] The shame we feel as parents when our kids do something humiliating

[18:10] The 'good' vs. 'bad' parent dichotomy

[20:45] Why the naughty behavior hasn't crossed over into other areas of Lian's son life

[23:50] How to handle your kid hitting you

[30:45] Tips for helping your child empty their emotional backpack

[36:05] How hard parenting really is on a marriage

[38:00] Check in with Lian

[42:15] Tips for empathizing with our kids

[48:00] Keeping an aggression log

[56:30] Why we should never ignore a child when they're upset