

What A Sexless Marriage REALLY Does To A Man (And How To Resolve It)
37 snips Oct 6, 2025
Explore the emotional and psychological toll of a sexless marriage on men. Discover how rejection affects confidence and triggers stress responses. Learn about the hormonal impacts that can lead to fatigue and a sense of loss. Delve into the dynamics of sex as a power play and the signs of emotional withdrawal. Hear about practical steps to rebuild trust and intimacy, emphasizing the importance of emotional safety. Finally, envision a revitalized sex life through co-creation, addressing underlying issues to foster deeper connections.
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Sexlessness Rewires Brain And Body
- Connor Beaton explains sexlessness triggers the nervous system to treat a partner as a threat, lowering bonding chemicals and raising stress hormones.
- This rewiring erodes confidence, self-trust, and a man's sense of worth over time.
Rejection Feels Like Physical Pain
- Rejection activates the same brain regions as physical pain, so repeated sexual rejection causes real, measurable stress for men.
- Frequent refusals lead men to label closeness as dangerous and to avoid reaching for physical connection.
Client Tracked Nearly 200 Rejections
- Connor shares client data: one man had sex 2–3 times in a year but recorded nearly 200 rejections, leaving him devastated.
- That accumulation pushed him close to asking for a divorce due to exhaustion and emotional withdrawal.