Many Avoidant Partners Would Be Relieved If You Initiated Divorce

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Many people will not initiate divorce because they don't want to be the "bad guy" or start a conflict.  However, avoidant partners in particular often end up much happier alone, without the emotional/sexual demands of a relationship to stress them. Coparenting often is much better suited to their personalities as well, as they are often frustrated by their inability to fully focus on work or hobbies when always with the kids. This reframe may be useful if you want to leave your avoidant partner but are staying together out of guilt!