Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

189. “People definitely called me out”: Nate & Serena return 2 years later

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Dec 31, 2024
Nate and Serena share their remarkable financial journey two years later. They discuss the emotional complexities of navigating money in relationships, emphasizing open communication and teamwork. From wedding planning to tackling debt, they reflect on how financial discussions have strengthened their bond. The couple explores creative budgeting strategies and thoughtful gifting, revealing the joys and anxieties surrounding significant purchases. Their story illustrates the transformative power of viewing finances as expressions of care and love in a relationship.
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ANECDOTE

50-50 Rent Split Revelation

  • Serena's firmly held belief about splitting rent 50-50, regardless of income disparity, caused unexpected stress for Nate.
  • This belief stemmed from Serena's upbringing and led to arguments, highlighting how past experiences can shape financial views in relationships.
INSIGHT

Nate's Financial Anxiety

  • Nate's initial financial anxieties stemmed from the delayed gratification inherent in his medical career path.
  • Ramit's advice helped him realize his financial situation was temporary and would improve with his future income.
ANECDOTE

Serena's Shift in Generosity

  • Serena realized that she wasn't being generous with money in her relationship and used it transactionally.
  • After Ramit's advice, she learned to use money to show love and create closeness with Nate.
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