That's a Big Ask
Nov 27, 2025
In a thrilling finale, Genevieve and Ishik dive into the complexities of ambiamory and feelings of shame around secrecy. They tackle the ethics of seeking new romantic connections and the importance of defining boundaries. The conversation flows to social sharing of partners, navigating long-distance challenges, and the essence of healthy polyamory. They also debunk myths about nesting and discuss the significance of honesty in relationships. Tune in for insights that blend humor with heartfelt advice!
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Ask To Fill In The Gaps
- Ask clarifying questions instead of assuming why someone isn't responding or behaving a certain way.
- Get the person's full story to avoid miscommunication and reduce jumping to conclusions.
Patterns Trump Promises
- Watch for patterns, not just promises when someone says they will change.
- Claiming to "work on it" means little without clear actions and a timeline.
Date The Person You Have Now
- Do not date a future version of someone; date the person in front of you now.
- Define terms like "partner," "committed," and "sex" explicitly to avoid mismatched expectations.
