332: [Soapbox] Why do women fake orgasm

Why do women fake orgasm — and what does it really mean for the relationship? In this video, we dive deep into the real reasons women pretend to climax, from avoiding conflict and protecting their partner’s ego to feeling pressure to “perform.” You’ll learn what’s actually happening beneath the surface, why faking it can create emotional distance, and how couples can rebuild honesty, safety, and genuine pleasure in bed.

If you’ve ever wondered:

Why do women fake orgasm even when they love their partner?

What does it say about desire, communication, or compatibility?

How can couples start having real, connected sex again?

This conversation will help you understand the dynamics at play — and how to shift from performance to true intimacy.

Listen now to explore the psychology behind why women fake orgasm, and how both partners can move toward honesty, ease, and real satisfaction.

00:00 Introduction to Better Sex

00:56 Why Women Fake Orgasms

03:09 The Cost of Faking Orgasms

04:21 How to Address Faking Orgasms with Your Partner

04:55 A Real-Life Example

06:44 Encouragement for Open Communication

07:46 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

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