Best Of: Shankar Vedantam on the Power and Paradox of the Self-Deceiving Brain
Dec 27, 2023
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The podcast explores the role of self-deception in human flourishing, including its impact on happiness in relationships. It also discusses the paradox of self-deception in larger groups and institutions, as well as the resistance of our brains to accept climate change. The speaker shares a personal experience with an eye surgeon and suggests approaching conspiracy theories with compassion and curiosity.
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Delusional beliefs in relationships can contribute to happiness and satisfaction, even if they are not entirely accurate.
Self-deception can provide emotional resilience and aid wellbeing, particularly in situations where it offers solace and support.
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The Power of Delusional Beliefs in Relationships
Delusional beliefs in our relationships, such as perceiving our partners as more beautiful, intelligent, and compassionate than they really are, can contribute to our happiness and satisfaction in those relationships. When we have these delusions, we are more likely to have happier relationships compared to those who see their partners more accurately.
The Utility of Self-Deception
Self-deception can serve a beneficial purpose, as illustrated through the story of the Church of Love scam. The deceived members found solace and emotional support in the love letters they received, which prevented depression and even saved some from suicide. While self-deception can have harmful consequences, it can also provide emotional resilience and aid wellbeing in certain situations.
Broad Impact of Delusions and Self-Deception
Delusional thinking and self-deception are not limited to personal relationships but can also influence group dynamics, institutions, and society at large. The placebo effect, often observed in medical trials, highlights how belief and self-deception can have positive effects on health outcomes. Nations, despite being human inventions, can create a sense of unity and enable collective action through shared delusions. Utilizing self-deception strategically in important causes, like climate change, may be more effective than relying solely on logic and reason.