CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT How Parents Can Navigate Their Relationship with Adult Children with Dr. Laurence Steinburg
Feb 6, 2024
Dr. Laurence Steinberg, a Professor of Psychology at Temple University and author of "You and Your Adult Child," shares insights on the evolving dynamics between parents and their adult children. He discusses the ongoing brain development into the early twenties, reshaping parental expectations. Topics include the impact of financial dependence on emotional independence and the importance of compassionate communication, especially when young adults return home. Steinberg emphasizes adjusting expectations and understanding generational differences in milestones.
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Inspiration Behind The Book
- Laurence Steinberg's book was inspired by parents who sought guidance on adult-child relationships, not estrangement.
- He recognized the impact of extended adolescence on parents' experiences and relationships.
Brain Maturation and Plasticity
- Brain development continues well into the early twenties, especially in areas related to self-control and decision-making.
- The brain remains highly plastic, meaning experiences during this period deeply influence future development.
Adjust Expectations for Adult Children
- Parents should adjust expectations and avoid comparing their child's progress to their own at the same age.
- Young adults taking longer to find themselves or establish careers is normal in today's world.
