

Savage Lovecast Episode 970
10 snips Jun 3, 2025
This week, comedian Jeremy Alder, a former fundamentalist Christian pastor turned humorist, brings his dry wit to the table. He shares hilarious insights about the pitfalls of homeschooling and his 'slutty phase' post-church life. The conversation dives deep into navigating honesty in polyamorous relationships, stress over communication, and the complexities of dom/sub dynamics, like the dilemmas of pegging. Listeners also hear a heart-wrenching story of a decade-long friend-with-benefits relationship that turns rocky, raising questions about emotional closure.
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Disclosure Timing in Poly Relationships
- In an open poly relationship, you are allowed to pursue multiple partners without immediate disclosure of new ones.
- Share new partner information when it naturally comes up during visit conversations, not necessarily before.
Navigating Sexual Identity and Safety
- Enjoy your sexual preferences without concern for labels; you can identify however feels right.
- Use dating apps to find partners safely and take health precautions like regular STI testing.
Submissive Role in Pegging
- When pegging your dom partner, remember it can be about their pleasure, keeping you in your submissive role.
- Embrace the subtop role and focus on fulfilling your dom partner's desires under their guidance.