Becoming Whole Your Next Step toward Sexual Integrity
Are you ready to be free?
Are you ready for life in the area of sexual integrity?
Are you ready for your relationships to be healed, and working the way God intended them?
Together we will walk through 8 phases in the journey to sexual wholeness. Through this process, you will know where you are and how to take the next steps.
Highlights:
Phase 0 – Ground zero
In this phase, there is an awareness of sexual addiction. You are living in denial and still enjoying your sin. There is a tendency to be distracted from your deeper felt needs and to often blame others or circumstances for the things not going right in your life.
Phase 1 - Uncertain but curious
There is some acknowledgment of the pain of the problem but otherwise, you feel you're okay.
You may begin looking for recovery options at this point, but no real commitment.
Phase 2 - Interested
At this point, your pain points have intensified; and you're feeling more of the weight of your actions. Maybe you have been discovered, or it's beginning to affect your family or career.
You're looking for "no risk" content; something that fits neatly into your lifestyle.
Phase 3 - Testing the waters
You have become wearier from carrying this weight and are aware that you need help.
Who can I talk to, where can I go?
Can I afford it?
You have not made any direct interaction, yet are aware you need to change.
Phase 4 - Stepping In
Ready, but still skeptical.
I need help now; I need a community!
But how do I fit in with a recovery group? Am I like them, will I be excepted?
Phase 5 - Walking forward
At this phase, you are convinced you need help but in denial about the commitment needed. Maybe you think you don't need as much help as others do.
Perhaps you're doing the work but not ready to let your spouse know.
Phase 6 - All in
You are aware that you need help and are willing to do whatever it takes. Here you're ready to give what's necessary for however long it takes.
This is the most open and honest you have been through this process.
Phase 7 - Integration
This is the point you recognize recovery is healthy living. You are open with your weaknesses and struggles. You are aware that living a healthy life requires attention and attunement.
You were still a part of a local community however you may begin teaching or leading others into sexual wholeness.
The integration phase highlights the important fact that recovery is just a process of sanctification. It opens up more and more of our lives into the light of Christ so that we may heal, grow, and be all the men and women God has designed us to be.
Wherever you are in this process, be encouraged God is with you! Trust Him and take the next step.
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Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole
👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)