Building HER with Katja Lillian The Confidence Framework: 5 Reframes I Shared On Stage
In this episode of Building HER, Katja shares her story of judgment, failure, identity, permission, unknown and how she reworked them. She takes listeners behind the scenes of how she went from lost and unfulfilled in a six-figure corporate job to creating a purpose-driven coaching business, inspiring women everywhere to trade the life that looks good for one that feels good. Through her own story and lessons learned, Katja explores the fears that keep us stuck—fear of judgment, failure, and the unknown—and the courage it takes to rewrite your own definition of success.
💡 What You’ll Hear Inside
- The truth about living a life that “looks good on paper” but doesn’t feel good
- Katja’s personal journey—from getting fired and feeling lost to building a six-figure coaching business
- How a Tony Robbins seminar became her gateway to personal growth
- The 5 fears that keep women stuck:
- Fear of judgment
- Fear of failure
- Identity tied to achievement
- Waiting for permission
- Fear of the unknown
- Real talk about comfort vs. courage (“golden handcuffs are still handcuffs”)
- Reframing failure, self-worth, and success
- Why courage isn’t about being fearless—it’s about taking the next step anyway
- A final invitation to rewrite your definition of success and start now—step by step, brick by brick
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