The Dr. John Delony Show

Caught My Husband Sexting an AI Chatbot

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Nov 10, 2025
Morgan, a concerned wife, shares her shocking discovery: her husband is engaging in sexual fantasies with an AI anime chatbot. She grapples with feelings of betrayal and trust, especially given his history with pornography. John explains why AI sexual interactions can be perceived as a deeper betrayal and offers advice on rebuilding trust through open communication and therapy. The conversation touches on the wider implications of AI relationships in society and the emotional toll on marriages.
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ANECDOTE

Wife Discovers Husband's AI Sexual Chat

  • Morgan found her husband using an anime AI chatbot to act out sexual fantasies, which felt like a new level of betrayal.
  • They have been together nine years with three young kids, intensifying the shock and hurt.
ADVICE

Reclaim Autonomy After A Digital Affair

  • John Delony advises reclaiming autonomy by listing non-negotiables and defining a clear path back to trust.
  • He recommends actions like no more screens, deletion of content, and couples counseling.
ADVICE

Stop Carrying Secrets Alone

  • John tells Morgan not to carry the secret burden alone and to find confidential support like therapists or trusted friends.
  • He urges refusing to keep secrets and using trusted people to process grief and decide next steps.
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